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VIDEO: The Invitations I Declined: How Painful Scalp Lesions Affected Adrian’s Social Life

During the eight years that Adrian lived with Acne Keloidalis Nuchae (AKN), he turned down countless invitations from friends, coworkers, and even close family members. AKN became more than just a physical condition, it became a looming presence that affected his social life. It was the reason he slowly withdrew from others and slipped into a lifestyle of isolation. The stigma and embarrassment surrounding his skin condition were too heavy for him to face, and over time, he lost the confidence to show up socially at all.

Adrian isolated himself from his friends and family as he struggled to hide his AKN lesion. 
Adrian isolated himself from his friends and family as he struggled to hide his AKN lesion. 

Missed Connections

“It definitely made me feel like I couldn’t go out as often as I wanted to,” Adrian said about his AKN on The BaldCast. He felt anxiety about the attention his scalp bump would get. That paranoia chipped away at his peace of mind until simply stepping outside became a challenge. He didn’t feel comfortable leaving his home unless he was fully covered. 

He dodged invitations and made excuses to avoid being asked questions about his AKN.
He dodged invitations and made excuses to avoid being asked questions about his AKN.

Neverending Excuses

As the years went on, Adrian found himself making excuse after excuse to avoid being seen. He often told people he wasn’t feeling well or was too busy. Those excuses piled up, and before long, he had completely cut himself off from the people who cared about him. Living apart from his mom only added to the problem. She couldn’t easily check in or notice just how withdrawn he had become. The longer Adrian stayed isolated, the harder it became to break the cycle. His motivation to seek help declined, and the process of getting AKN treatment stretched out far longer than it needed to.

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Individual results may vary. This story reflects one patient’s personal experience with Acne Keloidalis Nuchae (AKN) and treatment with Dr. Umar. Consult with a qualified physician for personalized advice.

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