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VIDEO: A Cap At The Wedding: How AKN Affected Adrian’s Relationship With His Mom

With Adrian’s mom now fully aware of his Acne Keloidalis Nuchae (AKN), she did everything in her power to support him. She urged him to see a specialist as soon as possible, reminding him that no one should have to live in pain or shame. But Adrian, weighed down by years of insecurity and disappointment from failed treatments, kept putting it off. Over time, the lesion grew larger and harder to ignore. It affected every waking moment Adrian had. His mom saw how it deteriorated his self-esteem. Still, life continued to move forward. In the midst of all this, Adrian’s mom got engaged, filled with joy and the hope of beginning a new chapter in her own life. She wanted Adrian to share that happiness with her, to stand by her side and be part of her wedding day.

Adrian was happy for his mom, but was scared of the judgement he would receive if she stood at the altar with her wedding party. He insisted on wearing a beanie to her wedding to hide his AKN lesion.
Adrian was happy for his mom, but was scared of the judgement he would receive if she stood at the altar with her wedding party. He insisted on wearing a beanie to her wedding to hide his AKN lesion.

All Eyes On Him

When Adrian’s mom approached him about being part of the wedding party, he hesitated. The AKN bump on his scalp had become prominent and impossible to hide. The idea of standing in front of guests and being in photos filled him with dread. He worried that his appearance would distract from his mother’s special day. He told her that if he were to stand up there with her, he’d need to wear a beanie. It wasn’t something he wanted to do, but it felt like the only way to protect himself from judgement. 

Adrian’s mother’s support and love for her son never wavered. He was behind him 100% when he went through his AKN removal journey.
Adrian’s mother’s support and love for her son never wavered. He was behind him 100% when he went through his AKN removal journey.

A Mother’s Love

Despite the circumstances, Adrian’s mother never wavered in her love or understanding. “I told him that the most important thing was that he was there and that he was valued,” she told Dr. Sanusi Umar on The BaldCast. Her compassion and reassurance reminded Adrian that his worth was never tied to his skin condition. That moment eventually led him to take the leap and seek help from Dr. Umar, the world-renowned AKN specialist. Throughout his long and emotional AKN removal journey, his mother remained a steady source of comfort and love.

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Individual results may vary. This story reflects one patient’s personal experience with Acne Keloidalis Nuchae (AKN) and treatment with Dr. Umar. Consult with a qualified physician for personalized advice.

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